Style Matters: Your Style Shapes Your Self-Image and Success

Style Is More Than Clothes

Style is of utmost importance in living an extraordinary life. It truly matters. In fact, it not only matters, it is imperative to living an above-average existence.

Style is:

• The way you dress
• The way you speak
• The way you do things
• The way you express your inner world to the outer world

Your style tells the story of how you see yourself. The question is, are you telling that story on purpose or by accident?

Ordinary Style vs. Extraordinary Style

Ordinary Style (Unintentional)

Ordinary style is when you drift through life without intention. It feels safe and familiar, but it actually feeds a negative self-image and keeps you small.

Ordinary style looks like:

• Wearing the same clothes for years
• Dressing out of fear or insecurity
• Avoiding attention because of what people might think
• Reaffirming the story that you are “just average”

Ordinary style keeps you stuck in the past version of yourself.

Extraordinary Style (Intentional)

Extraordinary style is when you step into who you are becoming. It is how you show the world your truth and fuel your dreams.

Extraordinary style looks like:

• Choosing detail and intention in what you wear
• Dressing for your dreams, not just convenience
• Dressing for joy and confidence
• Walking into the room like you belong there
• Dressing for who you want to be, not who you have been

Extraordinary style feeds your self-image, and yourself-image fuels the life you create.

Why Style Matters

It Changes How You See Yourself

When you choose extraordinary style, you start seeing yourself as capable, worthy, and powerful.

It Changes How Others See You

Style communicates your truth before you say a single word. People read your story instantly.

It Builds Confidence

The right style creates energy, confidence, and boldness. You feel unstoppable because you are reflecting the best version of yourself.

It Helps You Know Yourself Better

Dressing on purpose makes you ask: Who do I want to be today? What story do I want to tell? Those answers shape your entire life.

Style Lies We Tell Ourselves

• “I don’t have a style.” Truth: You are your style.
• “I don’t have time.” Truth: The return on investment is massive.
• “It isn’t important.” Truth: It matters because you matter.
• “I need to lose weight first.” Truth: Wear clothes that make you feel amazing in the body you have right now.
• “I don’t have enough money.” Truth: Extraordinary style is about intention, not price tags.

Dress to Impress Yourself

Every morning you make a choice.

Will you feed a negative self-image, or will you dress for joy, confidence, and power?

Ask yourself:

• How do I want to see myself today?
• How do I want others to see me today?
• How do I want to feel today?

Then dress for those answers.

Style and Self-Image

Style is not shallow. Style is one of the most powerful personal development tools available.

• When you look better, you feel better
• When you feel better, you show up bolder
• When you show up bolder, the world reflects that back toyou

Your self-image is shaping everything in your life: your relationships, your career, your income, your health, and even what you believe is possible.

Simply put: extraordinary style fuels an extraordinary life.

Imagine Your Most Extraordinary Life

What would be possible if you truly saw yourself as extraordinary every single day?

• The relationships you would build
• The goals you would set and actually achieve
• The confidence you would walk in
• The joy you would allow yourself to feel

Do not settle for autopilot. Do not shrink into someone else’s version of who you should be. Refuse to sleepwalk through your one precious life.

Dress with purpose. Live with purpose. Create extraordinary on purpose.

Final Word

The most important story you will ever tell is the one about yourself. So why not make it extraordinary?

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And remember… You cannot fail if you Don’t Ever Stop Chasin’ It!‍